Small steps over time can produce huge results. I have already written elsewhere about the compounding effect.
This applies not only to our own actions but also to upheavals in the market. Only relatively few enormous changes come overnight. Often it takes years, sometimes decades (or even over 100 years, like an electric car).
We see this wonderfully in European politics right now: the "big people's parties" have not seen (or want to see) the change taking place in society for decades: Away from lifelong employment in the same company towards "patchwork careers". Away from lifelong loyalty, towards day-to-day decisions. And so on.
We can like it or not: it remains a reality.
How can we deal with this creeping change? What should we as a company do to escape the fate of those who have not seen it coming?
It is commonly said, “You will become what you think of most of the time.” This applies to any organization. The more people talk about “unsolvable” problems, the more unsolvable those problems become.Â
The more managers talk about tough competition from Asia or elsewhere, the more the staff will act as if the situation is hopeless. The more people think that the next meeting is a waste of time, the more likely it is that the meeting will be ineffective.
The root cause is the programming of our brain: we move in the direction we are facing. And we generate the reality we think of most.
This is why the assessment of any company’s difficulties is fairly easy for me as a consultant: most of the time, I just need to listen carefully to how people talk during the day. You as a leader can do the same: listen carefully to yourself and to your people. And then influence the thought patterns.
Here are five ideas:
There are concepts in psychology that, if taught in school and university, would make all the difference in people’s lives and careers. But nobody teaches them.Â
Only when we study the “old” masters of success psychology, such as Jim Rohn, Zig Ziglar, Darren Hardy, John Maxwell, and others, we find out about the power of these simple truths.Â
One of these principles is this: you attract success by who you become, not by pursuing it. I was writing about this in earlier posts.
The next three seconds decide your life! Doesn’t that sound too dramatic? Well, there is some truth in it.
You can completely change your entire life within a few seconds. Also, you had already done this in the past: when you asked your partner perhaps the most important question. When you called the prospective buyer, who later became your best customer. Or, when you separated from a team member - for the good of both sides.
You can prepare every decision for a long time. Making the decision then takes seconds or even fractions of a second.
But, here's the most important thing: you can use the next three seconds to make a decision that will have a significant positive impact on your success. Alternatively, you can let these three seconds pass.
I'll tell you a secret: your whole life is just one big change. Nothing remains the same. Even not your body, as your cells are constantly renewing, just like your environment. What is not constantly renewing will die.
And yet we often pretend we can keep everything as it is. Where does that belief originate? We learn over years and decades - at school and work - that it is good to control the state of things.
Do you know what the most successful people do (as opposed to the average)? They control the change process instead of the current state.
The good news is that you can learn that process. But you have to 'get to grips' with your way of thinking.
Maybe you know the comical question, "How do you eat an elephant?" The answer: "Bite by bite!"
The background is a very relevant one for changing behaviors and corporate cultures: Most changes never happen - even if you consider them important - because people never really start.
And by "start" I don't mean that you're attending a workshop or reading a book on the subject (although these can be important preparations), but that you're really changing something about yourself.
The order is always: awareness âž” intent to change âž” information âž” execution âž” perseverance.
Steps 1-3 can be seen quite often among individuals and in companies. Even step 4 sometimes still occurs. At step 5 we lost most of the people, despite our best intentions. The elephant mentioned at the beginning still stands tall.
Today, I send you a video impulse, directly from the ski slopes of Tignes in the French Alps at an altitude of over 3000m.
Of course, I also included a message for leadership, which I had already shared a few years ago - with some resonance.
What is it about?
Every good skier knows that you have to do something counterintuitive to get down the slopes safely: You have to lean forward – the steeper and more difficult the slope the more.
Beginners, on the other hand, tend to lean backwards and wonder why they lose control.
And here's the question: How much do you lean forward in business? To make the analogy more concrete, here are three examples:
The other day I published a video on LinkedIn that attracted some attention and sympathy (watch it here).
The title is "Do you ever feel like standing in the rain?" It's about a myth I keep encountering, namely that success means a better and easier life.
Is that really the case? The answer: Yes, partly.
Examples:
There are countless examples of these...
If you don't have enough success, maybe you are not creating enough problems! You might find yourself rubbing your eyes in amazement: "Create more problems? We already have enough of them!”Â
Or: "Don't the problems prevent us from focusing on the essentials?
This is all correct, however: Too often people do not strive for the next level of success because they fear they will get even more problems as a result.
And that is exactly the point: You will always generate problems if you substantially change something. So you better have the mindset that creating problems is something positive.
Or do you think that Elon Musk, Richard Branson, Steve Jobs, Nelson Mandela and many others have pursued the path to success without experiencing problems? It will more than likely be the opposite!
I have just come back from a global leadership workshop for a medium-sized company in Vienna. Almost 40 leaders who participated went through one and a half days of intensive and successful training. The goal was: to create the basis for winning team leadership.
In these types of workshops, the question inevitably arises as to why and whether we want to win. Is winning good at all? And, will others not lose if we win too much?
The answer to these questions is simple: once you have put the participants in a playful competitive situation, everyone will absolutely want to win - virtually without exception.
What really makes us have doubts about winning is the fear of too much success, because success obliges. Success means responsibility. Success raises the bar.
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